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[jaylove]

Hi
So it’s been six days since W said she had filed the petition.
She has been in the psychiatric hospital all this time and we have not had any communication other than a brief talk about childcare
I am still confused as to the best approach in my sitch as in the past while I would not say I was a totally closed person as far as talking about feelings and emotions with her, I am not he most open either
It seems like my efforts to detach have so far been met with indifference - everyone I have spoken to who has also been in Contact with W says she is still talking about D and will not consider separation.
She is still unstable mentally as far as I can tell and in the U.K. it can take up to 33 weeks from my acknowledgement of the petition to the final Decree Absolut, so I still have some hope that DB techniques can work over the next few months.
From what I can make out, she is not going to come back home and will stay in a hotel then find an apartment, so anything I do will be done from a distance