Was it me or him?!?!

[Ste7e]

Mmelisa thanks for chiming in on my thread.
Just read through hope that I can be helpful in return.
I myself am a decade sober at this point and an active Al Anon member also.
Just because he isnt a daily drinker does not mean that he isnt powerless over alcohol.
And even if he gets sober he isnt emotionally sober which is even more important.
You need to pull away yourself (and for yourself) and hope that he hits some sort of bottom to want to change.
read Codependent no more if you havent already
Be strong!