She tested the waters, your boundaries and found that they have given way quite easily.
Hold your boundary, no R chance if you are with OM.
"WW, I am not paying the triangulation game, nor the pick me dance. I am worth a complete R with."
So validate her confusion but keep up the truth darts. That was a spell break moment because now you know you can never unknow. And you have cut her crap denial and gaslighting.
I hope you have a screenshot of that dating profile.
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I also think OM isn't in the bag and it's likely if she has a dating profile, it might have been if you had moved out of the MH and left her to be 'happy ever after ' and she now knows that isn't going to happen.
A modified Plan B looks better than an inoperable Plan A. Otherwise it's a very unpleasant Plan C. Or a new OM from online.
She feels sorry for herself and it was her own choices that did it.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW