Hi SH - Welcome, and I'm glad you found us. As a Christian myself, I am in agreement that perhaps there is a biblical approach that can be taken. There is plenty of biblical precedence for a married couple to be available to each other sexually. You have the right to tell her what you want/need in this marriage - in, hopefully, a loving/supportive way. Perhaps you two could see a pastor or Christian counselor about this?

BTW, I am a MOPS leader for next year and you've given me a WONDERFUL idea for a meeting topic! We often have meetings about marriage/relationships but never have we really approached the seemingly taboo topic of sex. However, maybe this an area that really need to be explored, and MOPS would be a good setting for that if you ask me. (Then again, I love to talk about sex! LOL)