I admire the way you handle your situation, its a difficult one for sure but you seem to assess the circumstances very analytically and with more kindness and patience than I think I could muster.
oh gosh yes, I have always thought her WAH was the biggest idiot for not seeing the kindness and forgiveness she has for him. It is very hard to love someone who cheats and bails out on their family, but love is a choice, and choosing to love someone for the goodness that is buried within takes a big heart. Nicole, I know all of us have drawbacks that is why we are the LBSs, actually I think so does rest of the world but our misfortune brought us here, but your H is a real fool for leaving you, sorry. - arshi
