Orange... the similarities between our W's are uncanny. The only real differences I see is your W actually wanting to do some parenting and my W's drug issues. Besides those 2 things, they could be the same person. Weird...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
Well she isnt protesting about anything. I think she is just confused as to why i have all the sudden stopped replying.
I find it interesting she is now trying to validate and confirm that she is at her mothers each night, we both know as a fact she has co slept S3 at OM's house, and she just denies it. Its amazing the length she is going to in order to attempt to add some validity to her story.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
Well she isnt protesting about anything. I think she is just confused as to why i have all the sudden stopped replying.
I find it interesting she is now trying to validate and confirm that she is at her mothers each night, we both know as a fact she has co slept S3 at OM's house, and she just denies it. Its amazing the length she is going to in order to attempt to add some validity to her story.
No she is protesting about not being at OM house. Her need to convince you is too obvious. Those with nothing to hide don't go through all the trouble of PROVING they have nothing to hide.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
No she is protesting about not being at OM house. Her need to convince you is too obvious. Those with nothing to hide don't go through all the trouble of PROVING they have nothing to hide.
Good point, when you said "Protesting" my mind went to something she was disagreeing with me about, but "Protesting" her having been co-sleeping at OM's house, and now "Protesting" that she isnt makes sense.
"Those with nothing to hide don't go through all the trouble of PROVING the have nothing to hide" Truer words were never spoken.
It just makes me a bit jumpy as to what she might try if she continues to not get the results she wants through this method.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
Well she isnt protesting about anything. I think she is just confused as to why i have all the sudden stopped replying.
I find it interesting she is now trying to validate and confirm that she is at her mothers each night, we both know as a fact she has co slept S3 at OM's house, and she just denies it. Its amazing the length she is going to in order to attempt to add some validity to her story.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
