My gosh thank you, the support from strangers here is indeed amazing. I always read others I follow many, but am weird about advice because I am so new to this and really suck at dB and all things I should be doing. My WW is like all others in character with the twist of maybe drugs involved other than just pot. Her sister was a WW, got on meth right around same age as my WW. I just put this together the other day. As I may have mentioned, her father commited suicide when she was four, her mother and sister are on meth. I can see how her head is a mess. I still love her and hope to get her straightened out, I just loose more and more hope everyday. We are starting to argue more about kids, she's tigbtening her grip on my balls. I am afraid in a few more months it will be an all out war for them.
I appreciate everyone more than you know, as I spend hrs and hrs a day reading your situations and rules and guidance.