BEWAS - You are lucky that your WW's parents are rational. My wives parents have been cleaning up after her chaos for her whole life. She is their only child, and I blame bother her parents for abuse, and enabling her behaviors. If you look at Sandi's post about how ADDICTIVE she has been you can see why it took my so long to approach detachment healthily, and why its so hard to resist texting her back, etc. I am seeing now how much it bugs her to be ignored. I plan on keeping my silent vigil!
I know, I think I'm very lucky in that regard in my sitch. I mean...she blames me for her current situation but I guess that's par for the course with her lately. Everything has been my fault regardless. :P It definitely is enabling on her parents part.
After reading Sandi's post there, wow, I think our WW's are similar mostly only in that they are both WW but my W was never the way she has been acting lately. It was like a switch was turned in her head as she never showed any of these characteristics before. It was a 180 degree turn in personality. It seems your W has been like this for a long time and doing it to others all her life. It seems you are dealing with a different beast entirely lol.
Keep on with the silence man, I think it will help you for sure in the long run!
W 31(WW) Me 32 Married 7 years together 12 1 kid - 1.5 yr old S BD 23/05/2018 Separated since BD I moved out 20/06/2018 for my own sanity OM or just fling? Not sure...
