Also forgot to mention something I have found kind of humorous. D9 has spent the past couple of days just staring at her finger and toenails smiling after we went and got them painted. It was just what she needed. She is pretty proud of them. Lol...
That is awesome! Good dad!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Also forgot to mention something I have found kind of humorous. D9 has spent the past couple of days just staring at her finger and toenails smiling after we went and got them painted. It was just what she needed. She is pretty proud of them. Lol...
That is awesome! Good dad!
Oh yes.......
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Oh well... I deactivated my Twitter account. I had already blocked her from any other social media, I just forgot about Twitter because I quit using it...
I seriously wish more LBS's would follow your example! WELL DONE! It's pointless to get into a pissing match over this stuff, so much better to just sever the links. And guess what message you sent to her by doing that- "I DON'T CARE" which is EXACTLY the message you SHOULD be sending.
One of the best decisions I've ever made. Makes detachment so much easier. I don't care to see or know what she is up to. That's her business. I've got my life to live...
Well... W just sent a text asking when S8s ballgame would be over so she could come by and see the kids. I am going to respond and let her know. It sux though because now I already have anxiety. I am really laid back and never had an issue with anxiety until recently when she decides to show up out of the blue. I guess I will just let her know when we will be home and do my best to play it cool and calm. Never had a problem with it until I found out she was going around telling everyone that I was breaking into her house and beating her. I brought the accusations up to her about a month ago and she denied them. I have heard from too many people though and know she is slandering me. This sux. So much easier when she just stays away...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
Might just go to the park near the ballpark and have her meet us there. At least then, it is a public place and she cannot take anything from the house...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
Might just go to the park near the ballpark and have her meet us there. At least then, it is a public place and she cannot take anything from the house...
This is a good idea. Does the park have surveillance?
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
I always did my S3 exchanges with MIL at a place that had cameras (usually a grocery store parking lot) and i would park right underneath it.
I also had my phone on "Voice Record" mode. Although recording without consent is inadmissible in my state, i think because i was recording around my son, which I DO have the right to do, i think I would be ok.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
No surveillance at the park, but at least there will be other people around. She is not going to take them. Just do her monthly 15 minute pat on the head....
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
WIFE may be a bag full of bat-S*it crazy, and she does pawn S3 off on her parents a lot, but she does see him 50/50.
Of all the crazy things she has done, if she were to all the sudden stop parenting entirely like your wife, i would be shocked, and her ability to shock me is pretty much gone now. Save that.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
I always did my S3 exchanges with MIL at a place that had cameras (usually a grocery store parking lot) and i would park right underneath it.
I also had my phone on "Voice Record" mode. Although recording without consent is inadmissible in my state, i think because i was recording around my son, which I DO have the right to do, i think I would be ok.
With today's constant videoing and photography on mobile phones, it is unlikely that anyone would ever take any notice.
The police have got better things to do, like locking up accused H or W on a whim.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
