O, that's a good start on her part. But I don't know if I'd take a trip that soon with her. You need to proceed with caution and you need to make it clear to her that she doesn't just snap her fingers and you come running back. She needs to WORK to get you back. That means counseling, that means TOTAL TRANSPARENCY regarding OM. She needs to be willing to answer ANY and ALL questions you have. And she needs to be willing to turn her phone over to you for review at any given time. She thinks that's an invasion of privacy? Well tough, she gave up her right to privacy when she cheated on you and then decided she wanted to come back. Be firm with her and keep your walls up! Good luck!