Advice on my Scenario Pt. 18 - Nunquam Iterum

[OrangeK]

BEWAS - You are lucky that your WW's parents are rational. My wives parents have been cleaning up after her chaos for her whole life. She is their only child, and I blame bother her parents for abuse, and enabling her behaviors.
If you look at Sandi's post about how ADDICTIVE she has been you can see why it took my so long to approach detachment healthily, and why its so hard to resist texting her back, etc.
I am seeing now how much it bugs her to be ignored. I plan on keeping my silent vigil!

Sandi - It has been such a hard thing to accept that she truly is this messed up. That she truly is fixable and everything i ever knew of her was fabricated and deliberate. It is such a damaging factor to how i look at any person i meet now, its all through my Van Helsing style Narc-Radar.
I dont like how mistrustful it has made me, but i cant fathom being hurt like this again, so i think my defenses will be up for some time. The only course of action is complete, and utter NC, and going as dark as the inside of a pocket. Other than HARD FACTS and NECESSARY info regarding S3.
If we didnt have a child, i would honestly consider moving to a different state.
Keeping with NC and DARK will be my challenge, i know she knows the right things to say to woo me, or get under my skin.
I know she will try and eventually seduce me to do her some favor, or give her money.
She will likely try and use me to triangulate OM when she becomes bored with him (same thing she did with her EX when her and I were together)
She is truly showing her colors now, trying to be controlling, nosy, entitled and immature.

I am just going to watch from the shadows as she continues to burn down the world around her.
Im a firefighter. I got this.

Unit Commander OrangeK to Dispatch, We will be on scene for extended period, we have a large industrial structure with heavy fire in the interior, flames beginning to show through roof. All companies set up for defensive operations. I want Master stream lines deployed at the Alpha, Bravo and Delta sides of the building, with focus on containing the flames within the affected building. Strike a 3rd alarm, mutual aid to the scene.
Have EMS stage on scene for potential injuries, and order a HazMat Response for toxic run-off.