I had a feeling with your last update that she was headed here.
Now to be honest with you ovrrnbw, this is what it sounds like to me:
- OM is involved with somoene else or married or in some other way unavailable for more than what it has been. - She is "in love" with him and wants to be with him but coming to the realization that what they have is all they'll ever have. - Since Plan A is fading fast and out, she knows she'd be a fool to let her Plan B get away. - She is reluctant to recommit but also reluctant to let you go.
So with all that my advice is to make getting into MC a must. And not because you are insisting but because she wants to go and work on the MR.
Institute a weekly date night. If she is serious about trying then she will agree to trying to reconnect.
Look into what talk and touch charges are. My W and really hit our stride in R when we really sat down to talk to one another.
I am excited for you but caution you that she has a lot of work to do. Don't let her skate on it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
