Steve, you are right about the spoiled brat complex. Her parents have ALWAYS swooped in to save her @$$ when she has gone through these cycles before and had to bail out of living situations after she has devalued and discarded people, or been found out for who and what she is (this is what happened between her last EX and Me, she moved out of state to live with some guy [b]{while her EX was still deployed in the Army mind you.....} and when he discovered what she had done (this guy was also a soldier) he sent her packing in shame) Her parents have always been there to rescue her when she does this. Plus all the guys she has duped over the years, she is totally used to people just doing what she asks, especially when she spins the "Woe is me" act along with it. When she doesnt get her way, is when she goes into antagonistic passive aggressive attack mode.
Wow, this couldn't be any more different than my sitch. My W's parents and family weren't putting up with her bullsh#t right from the start even though she has never done anything like this. They weren't willing to support her in breaking up our family for no reason or her sudden personality change. As soon as they started questioning her, she got really antagonistic towards them and ended up having a huge falling out. The situation for my W blew up horribly for her in this regard, especially considering how highly she was respected by them before this.
I guess your W's parents are a lot more willing to overlook her behavior than my W's. I guess if they have provided her with rescue every time, then all they have done is validate her behavior basically.
W 31(WW) Me 32 Married 7 years together 12 1 kid - 1.5 yr old S BD 23/05/2018 Separated since BD I moved out 20/06/2018 for my own sanity OM or just fling? Not sure...
