Sometimes DB can get in the way of just living... I believe DB has its place in the big picture, but sometimes in the macro good times are just that, good times. I may smoke like sparky during any given night out if the atmosphere and timing works for me, but that doesn't mean I'm a druggy, I've barely smoked enough to count on your fingers... There are times I like to drink, nascar races being top of my list but also other sports events, picnics with friends (not family) and first dates (haha, just kidding)...

But seriously, when I do decide that the time and place is somewhere I want to drink, I drink... If the vibes right, I am engaged and stay engaged without getting trashed, the drinking just adds to the experience..

Don, I for one am happy for you, if she's not even calling it dating then it seems like you're both just enjoying the moment, and that's a good thing, no DB needed.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized