Vanilla and Steve85 i appreciate your thoughts. I agree with what you are saying but im not going to risk a domestic sitch, especiallg im front of my kids. That would be irresponsible on my part...even though she deserves to kicked out!

Im finally feeling pretty good. I finally feel that i can put the focoa on enjoying my own life with my kids and whatever happens to her happens. Shes on her own now!!! I really do feel strong and im more at peace than i have been in a long time! Ill keep you posted!