Oh, and I thought you were going to start focusing more on your stuff rather than her personality disorder? Your post yesterday sure did outline her personality disorder..... [/quote]
That was due to the discussion I was having with Makia about the topic. He and I were going back and forth about it, and comparing notes. Had it not been brought up in conversational exchange with other DB'ers I would not have brought it up. But thanks for keeping me honest, i didnt know that me posting that would bother you Ginger.
I am acting in the best interest of my S, right now an amicable situation is not a realistic option. It will be in the future, likely after D is finalized, but right now I know my situation would be exasperated by talking with WIFE, and as far as I am concerned that is worse for S3. I am choosing no contact for non confrontation for the sake of S3.
In regards to Ginger and J9 about how to act and whether or not to reply. I will eventually become more open and communicative. I will take the high road and lead that change, when its time. Right now everything she is doing is antagonistic. I have stated several times in the past an amicable co parenting situation is my ultimate goal, but that will take time to establish. I have sent out olive branches in the attempt to establish this only to be met with derisive hostility. I will bide my time and re-approach this when things have settled down a bit.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
