Joseph, the difference i think lies in the nature of the WAW/WW.

Your EXW seems to be a reasonable human being, obviously not perfect or you wouldnt be here.

My EX is not. Its all a power struggle game to her.

Take the "Driving Anxiety" messages for example.
What say you of that?
(look back into last thread for details on this, would have been last weekend i posted about it)

M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds