Advice on my Scenario Pt. 18 - Nunquam Iterum

[OrangeK]

Preface:WIFE does NOT like my brother or Sister in law.
WIFE and I Started dating right at the exact same time my brother started dating who is now his wife. my WIFE and her became fast friends early on. Then WIFE chose her as a person close to me to triangulate VERY early on in our R. I think she did this to push my brother and I apart, or because she has this need to be superior to other women. Either way WIFE began antagonizing and triangulating my brothers girlfriend, and it became a bit of a war of attrition over the years I was with WIFE. She drove a wedge between my brother and I by having a drama war with my SIL. I believed my WIFE for years, and thought my SIL was the one who was manipulative and crazy. It wasnt until BD when people showed their colors. WIFE was shown to be the lying deceptive snake she is, and i found out my SIL was hands down one of the most forgiving, generous, caring people ever. Needless to say my WIFE does not like her for the fact that she eventually overcame and rose above WIFE's manipulations.
WIFE also hates my brother for being the one person in my life to speak outwardly against her, and my brother has said some pretty harsh things to her in the past.
My brother and I are closer than brothers, we are like twins.
She tried to F**K with that bond, and it didnt go well for her.
Long story short, WIFE has a PARTICULAR hatred for my brother and his wife.

Also they are AMAZING Aunt and Uncle to S3.
Like miles above and beyond the call of duty.
SIL is who bailed me out when WIFE had me arrested.
SIL has been my helper for court, and all legal issues.
She is a rock, a titan of support and love.

Also worth noting my brother and I used to have a business breeding reptiles for exotic pets. We got rid of all our animals recently to make room for me and S3 at his house. WIFE doesnt know the animals are gone. She is going to look for any reason she can to discredit Brother and SIL's house as a safe living space for S3.
It is clean, safe, has a nice yard, on a lake, and S3 and I have a loving support structure there.


Update:
So last night WIFE texted me

WIFE: I got your new address in the mail
ME: *No answer*
(25 min later) WIFE: Im guessing you and S3 will be sharing the room that was the reptile room?
ME: *No Answer*
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This Morning at 7:45am

WIFE: *Sends Picture of S3 sleeping in PJ's at her mothers house*
WIFE: Since you dont seem to want to believe me, here is a picture of S3 sleeping, at my mothers house, where we both still live, in his bed, which is right next to mine.
Me: *No Answer*



Man, She really doesnt like to be ignored.
admittadly this is the first time she has texted that i have truly ignored her.
Anytime in the past i would wait hours, or even half a day, but I always caved and replied eventually.

She always texts about S3 so she feels ill be obligated to respond i think.

Im not answering.
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Personal Update.

Still feeling clean, disconnected.
i think ive made real detachment progress for once, just gotta maintain that forward momentum!!!

WIFE has S3 tonight. I think im gonna hit up the climbing gym.
see if i can still send a 5.9 on first try.
Double Dyno to Micro Crimper!