When my w introduced on2 to the kids it broke my heart
I literally felt the pain in my body as well as my spirit
The pain was good in that it is what made me finally let go
And while there is no right answer on what you should specifically be doing or not doing I suggest that you follow your conscience
For me my conscience told me to stop doing anything for her at all even if it helped the kids because it hurt me too much so I stopped completely
Only you know what is right for you but fixing her car no I could no longer do that
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving