It feels like crap for me anyway. So I will cut the hanging out / hugs etc unless it is brief as we exchange D3 or if we make plans to spend time just the 2 of us. Rather than me stopping by to see D3 and we end up being around each other... will try to back off more... again. She comes back when I do... its after she comes back that Im not sure how to play it. I have read LRT a bunch of times.
Don't even do that when you pick up or drop off D3. All business all the time. She is the cashier at the store. You are pleasant and friendly but don't really care about her or her life.
