Patience & DB / Detach or Divorce

[mtb1981]

It seems to me that she's got you on the hook and knows it. Personally, I would stop with the hugging and hanging out. You even said in your previous post that you need to be less available. You know what you should do, but you have a hard time doing it. That's understandable because it is hard. But you are feeding her a lot of cake. Back off and let her wonder what you are doing. She needs to fear losing you, but right now she has you eating the leftover cake crumbs from the palm of her hand. She has no real fear of losing you, and it's not working to your advantage...