Makia,

That is very revealing of you to share. thank you.
Yea, its hard to imagine that they continue to do the same things over and over again and still play the victim and pretend like its everyone else's fault.

Do you think that having a (likely) NPD mother lead you to having any co-dependency issues, or contributed to any NGS?

How old were you when you finally saw your moms true colors? Im so sorry you had to live with that for so long.
My son having to deal with that is whole life is a frightening prospect.

Considering she has never held a Job, (She had 4 in our 5 year R)

Boyfriend/Husband, New one every 3-5 years

Friend - Has ZERO friends that shes known for more than a year. All her old "Friends" were discarded with me.

or even a personal hobby (used to paint and draw, is really good at it, doesnt do it anymore. Used to Sing and write, sings beautifully, doesnt do it anymore. BEGGED me for a $550 camera, doesnt use it anymore)

I imagine I will see some form of it in my timeline, but i wont care.
As long as she isnt emotionally abusing S3.
Ill be on that like white on rice if she ever starts up with him when he grows into individuality.
Ill feed her to a ravenous pack of lawyers and judges if she starts manipulating our child for supply.


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds