bummer when the good times come up in your mind.
Im not missing her, but just had a happy memory of an inside joke between WIFE and I.

It's just tough to imagine that was all phoney.
I know the jokes and good times were real in the moment, but there was never a true commitment, never a true R.

Still, i feel clean and resolved. I know happy memories will pop up from time to time, and I will have to watch them float by, knowing they werent REALLY real.

I am still amazed by how much denial the WW, and Mine in particular are capable of.
I literally cannot wrap my head around how someone can re-write history and blameshift to the degree Ive seen WIFE do it, as well as other WW's here on the board.

How in hell do they think that it will ever sustain?
The truth always comes out,
I understand WHY the WW will re-write history, lie and deny.

But HOW they can do it, and believe it, boggles my mind. lol

M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds