Me: Talked with National Manager yesterday and followed up with the regional who said I knocked it out of the park. Just waiting for them to decide.
W: Well, we need to start looking into schools.
Me: I will get you some information and send it to you so if/when we agree we are ahead of the game. I still don't know how we are going to accomplish this as it will be very expensive.
W: I don't either.
ME: Are you still wanting to relocate?
W: Yes, that would be my preference.
Me: I just don't know how we can do that financially. Do you have any ideas?
W: You always handled that.
Me: We can discuss this more when the offer actually comes in.
Me: Did you handle the issue with the bank account (automatic charge that was supposed to be handled)?
W: No. I didn't know I was supposed to.
Me: We spoke yesterday about it. I don't take any money out of our joint account and don't even have a debit card for it.
W: I thought we were going to discuss it.
Me: We did yesterday.
W: Whatever.
Me: Could you explain to me what you mean by whatever?
W: No.
Me: I am not trying nor wanting to argue with you, I just wanted to discuss an issue.
W: No, you want to put words in my mouth and make it all my fault.
Me: No. I just asked a question.
W: Whatever
Me: There is that word again.
Me: As I'm looking into the relocation school areas, I am concerned about the financial cost of breaking our lease, the cost of moving and the cost of new housing and how that is going to work.
W: What do you mean how it is going to work?
Me: Our living arrangements, but I don't want to talk about that now. I will do the research on the schools, send them to you and we can discuss if/when the offer comes.
W: Whatever..
Me: I'm gonna let you go. As I said I am not trying to upset you or argue about anything and I am not trying to put words in your mouth.
She persisted and went on to talk about money more and I mentioned her getting a job. She said that I keep putting that out there and she can't work and isn't sure that she can even keep a job.
I ended the call I'd say not totally amically but before it escalated any further.
So yes, No Sh!t she can't hold a job. I'll be surprised if she can get a job making money. A few more parts to the convo but I wanted to get the gist down to get some feedback.
She is exhausted, doesn't feel well, and the weight of this is going to wear on her fast and I am the only person she can blame.
Thoughts? Input? Please...
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18
