Time to talk to a lawyer. It is wakeup call time. Why did you let her bring her things back? A forceful, I won't allow you to share the MBR with me while you are cheating.

Also, start asking her when she is moving out? That you won't live with a cheater. I am not the biggest advocate of tough love on this board, but in your sitch it seems very tough love is in order.

And you ARE strong enough to pull this off. Grow up and be a man. Stop being a little boy. Take back your masculine power. Be STRONG, CONFIDENT, IN CONTROL. Never yell, or raise your voice, but be firm.

Next time she goes out with him, move her stuff to another room. Get a lock on the MBR and start locking it.

You got this.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018