Just for the record it is not about getting her in the sack as it is being her lover and not her gay boyfriend.
Can we please move away from the term, "gay boyfriend" on these boards? I find it offensive. Someone being in the friend-zone is not related to that poster being gay or not gay. This same dynamic can exist in a straight couple or a gay couple, despite sexuality.
IH, yes, you have gotten some contradictory advice here. I think that's partly because none of us have been in your position before. You seem like an intelligent and level-headed person. You have also been at this DB thing a lot longer than many of us. Please trust yourself. You know her and your sense of where she is at sounds right. If there is one thing I have learned from my sitch, it is to trust my gut feelings about people. Our gut feeling doesn't steer us wrong!
Please, please keep posting! We are all in your corner, even when we don't give the best advice :-) There is so much for us to learn from you and your sitch and the way this is unfolding!
You got this! Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
