In regard to the daycare payments. Make sure you document this. Get something in writing from the daycare saying you have made your payments and she has not made hers. This may be helpful later in court...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019