I guess that depends on what you think. Is that OK with you if the OM is still around?
What sandi meant by the last paragraph is that normally, actions are result of feelings. But it also works the other way, that if we do a certain action, we get a certain feeling. If your W "goes through the motions" that the feelings will follow. That's why it's important that she performs the actions for now.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
