So it seems she might be ready to end the bedroom separation...only been a few nights but no indication she is going back to "her" room. On a personal note, I think I gain more objectivity the "closer" she gets. I definitely have some of those typical LBH feelings of being unsure I really want her back and increased resentment about everything. I know that's normal and I'm trying to deal with it appropriately. Recon may or may not ever end up on the table, but I think it's a good thing that I've gotten to the point where I know exactly what I need to even consider it and I'm not going to settle for anything less.
Yep, normal. When my W started showing signs of wanting to R, I suddenly started having a strong desire to just file for D. It was weird. But she definitely could see that I was detaching.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
