So it seems she might be ready to end the bedroom separation...only been a few nights but no indication she is going back to "her" room. On a personal note, I think I gain more objectivity the "closer" she gets. I definitely have some of those typical LBH feelings of being unsure I really want her back and increased resentment about everything. I know that's normal and I'm trying to deal with it appropriately. Recon may or may not ever end up on the table, but I think it's a good thing that I've gotten to the point where I know exactly what I need to even consider it and I'm not going to settle for anything less.


M: 26 W: 26
M: 1.5 T: 3
No kids
BD: 31 March 2018

W's affair began: 23 March 2018
Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018
Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018
Ended in-house separation: July 2018