She has o have no contact all with OM. She may still be obsessed and want contact but NC and telling him to go away and she is repairing her M is vital.

Eventually her attraction for the OM will die.

There has been on the board WW who are attracted to OM who aren't interested and even to fake OM and once a picture of someone they saw.

This stuff is crazy loco sometimes.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW