My little daughters 2 - securing their future

[Vanilla]

No I am not saying all cheaters are abusers neither am I saying all abusers cheat.

It is the way it's done.

Some cheaters use protection for instance and stop sleeping with their spouses. They get out of their R with minimum dram and blame. They also make sure there is a fair deal and children are an care of. They also stay great parents and don't play games. They want out, an A isn't the way to do it though.

It is still scummy and rotten but it's lower on the abuse scale.

Abusers particularly those who sleep with unsuspecting spouses, lie, spent family resources on porn, gambling, drinking etc. Who lie and blame the LBS for this are abusive. Who want all the resources and will manipulate to get it are abusive.

They get their kicks from cheating, some multiple times.

There is a special place in hell for those who do this to pregnant and breast feeding women and those grieving or seriously ill. And also on special days, birthdays, anniversaries, funerals days of major ops and of course Valentine's day. It's horrid and they know you will remember the day thereafter.

This is very nasty stuff.

I have heard horrid nasty on here, such as I wish our children had not been born, this isn't your child anyway or it's not my child, I am calling the police to get you evicted and I will accuse you of hitting me, I want everything, I hate you always. We should have aborted.

All of this is abuse and Of course the LBS made them do it.

It's nonsense.

V