Wife is not who I married...Pls Help Pt 4

[LoneWlf]

LoneWlf, I admire your acceptance of your situation and your appreciation for those who comment on your thread. It's hard to imagine how your wife could leave someone like yourself who has such a strong and healthy outlook and faith. I really hope she'll work to fix her relationship with you and your son.
Nicole- Thank you for taking interest and your kind words. Speaking from within - I cannot say that I am fully detached -I have a long journey ahead. I don't know if I agree that I have fully accepted my sitch - what I have done is to understand that I cannot control W. My focus and efforts are squarely on me and S. I have many days where I still reminisce the wonderful times and often long for the closeness and affection. That is the days I rely on my faith. That is when I simply look up - and talk and pray and KNOW that thru God ALL things are possible. In regards to my outlook - I come here and sometimes feel challenged- wondering often if I am doing the right thing. This place gives a place to unload and to analyze any comment or feedback given. It gives gives me comfort to know that their are people who are undergoing the same sitch (some far worse than mine) yet these individuals still come and RISE and exceed all expectations. My hope is for one day that my family will be restored in a more solidified version 2.0. That with the proper maintenance and care will survive the test of time. As I wish for all marriages. Our focus now is to redefine who we are so that we are able to reach or exceed our full potential. Blessings on your journey!