D- so happy that you are experiencing some incredible things on this trip along with great interactions with some wonderful people. I have witnessed some growth and healing in your sitch and wish you continued success. Your posts always seem to trigger a certain level of depth which helps others like me grasp and retain concepts better. Thank You!
Benito(Mr Miyagi)this is LoneWlf(Danielson). Thank you for the many lessons (Wax on- wax off). To hear actual words of enlightenment from "the master" is very inspiring. I also want to comment on your BLUNT-to the point- explanations. Although very hard to hear -it strikes to the heart of the matter -on point with no sugar coating. Thank you for your continued lessons and support of this board!
Thank you.
Honestly, hand on heart- it is no problem what so ever.
I have been there and try to give the advise I would have wanted with hindsight in my situation.
Alot of advise on here is great, I just find (from a personal level) that some people are more interested stopping the pain happening - rather than understand that the pain isn't necessarily the breakdown of the relationship, but the pain of feeling inadequate afterwards. So people chase the wrong things to fill the wrong gaps. And that (in my opinion) is were people don't get the results or just continue to spin their wheels.
A relationship in any form should compliment us - not make us.
