It's great that you are talking, but it seems like you are already putting expectations on this meeting. That seems unhealthy at this early stage. Just get together with her, without expectations, and listen to her. It could be that she is looking to R, but maybe not. It only causes problems to go in expecting something. Slow down and remember that you dont need her, that you are complete as is. If she wants to share time with you, great. But you are in control.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019