Did, I'm not sure about the answer to your question because I haven't been in that situation but it's great that you're getting closer towards reconciliation. It's been a long journey for you and it sounds like your wife has a lot of her own challenges to overcome, but it sounds like there's now a glimmer of hope. I hope you'll find exactly the right resources and advice to navigate the next steps to allow for the best possible outcome. If you have a young daughter then it'd be wonderful for your daughter to have her parents back together again if that's still possible.