Thanks Artista. We'll see what develops next. I do feel like I am making the right moves. The gay boyfriend this is ridiculous. An exhusband could ever be an ex wife's gay anything. Even WAW would laugh at that remark. Fact is if she seeks me out, she's emotionally attached. That means I am her turn to guy. And that's exactly what I should be to start/lead to a new intimate relationship. But seriously we actually have to gay friends that are married she could talk to. Those are the mutual friends she went to see a few weeks back. But seriously, gay boyfriend? Sex does not lead to a realtionship...after all we had post divorce sex a couple times back before she ever left for Florida. We see how that turned out for me. She needs her best friend back FIRST, before she falls in love with him again. Again, I could disagree more with your- just try and bang her and if you can't there's your answer-approach. This isn't a couple of horny high school kids emabarking on a new relationship...these are two adults who have had plenty of sex in almost 20 years...and she quite obviously likes to repeatedly praise and commend my manhood as she remembers it...that kind of shoots the gay boyfriend noting into oblivion. We're trying to reconnect, not undress.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
