Sandi2, it makes sense. But im a little confused on the last paragraph? Are you saying that the remorse is not vital initially if she shows a willingness to seek help and is committed to restoring the m?
My gut tells me that this is all fake and that she was acting to suit her own agenda. Even yesterday my w seemed more concerned about not having a spying device in her car than my daughters tears and questioning her behavior. I dont think she can be totally consumed with om and work on fixing our relationship at the same time. The om has to be out of the picture correct? And im only,talking theoretically...i would bever go along with an open m!!!!
