Keep restating your boundary, and advise if she says NC with OM and you find out differently you will act.
No R talks it's weak.
Admin yes. R talks no.
WW you know my boundary. You are the cheater and I have discovered you lied to me. It's a long way back from that. NC with OM completely otherwise I find your behaviour disrespectful and I go back to my original stance
There is no negotiating on it
My thoughts
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW