Sorry you are here, but you found a great place to vent. So keep being superhero dad. Not sure if I would leave kids alone with W due to her mental illness for that only reason they are ao young. Do W get along with older kids. Maybe they can be the ones to go and be with there younger siblings to watch them. Unfortunately your W at the moment your her anxiety. I know I am W anxiety so I stay far away from her. Just stay strong and sorry yourself are sick you must take care of yourself first your kids going to need you more than ever now. I myself am very ill and I have eaten better,exercise and yoga and meditation I am feeling better than when I was with W. You are truly in my prayers.
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9