hey, hoosjim... thank you for checking in... it's important that DBers hear about what comes next after a couple gets to the point where they want to work on the M... i think it's good that you make the appt with the MC... and maybe W can come to see that you think it's important in order to maintain and even grow, at least for the time-being... not on a weekly basis--but maybe every 4 weeks for the next couple of months, and then maybe every 6 weeks... and then maybe on an as-needed basis... W should be agreeable to it simply because it is important to you... because things are going well, what harm can checking in periodically with the MC do?