Thanks Steve.
Whatever it takes I will be ok.
I am more concerned about our children and how this extended issue will affect them for their future. I know my W and D are very close since they spend more time together. I am grateful they have that. I am not jealous, but I do wish I had more time to spend with her and that she wanted to spend time with me. All I can do is be her father. I am not her friend.

The other part is I feel, and I know this is mind reading, that my W will use this in some way to push her fantasy agenda forward. Maybe it is just me in my own head worrying over nothing as I have been known to do. I'm just going to relax and let it play out.


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18