New update. Sandi2 any help here is appreciated.

Both last night and this morning i asked my wife to leave. Then i accidentally dialed her while she was driving to work and heard her crying. I told her that i had dialed her by accident asked what was wrong? And she just cried, and,cried, and cried. I didnt really know what to say, and then she asked if we could go see a councilor? I said that i would but only if there is complete honesty and transparency.

Sandi, we have discussed this previously and i looked at that thread earlier. Is it possible for her to express remorse and start tp move forward in a positive manner. Meaning her and i work togther for the benefit of our kids and we see wherr it goes? My concern is that she was just singing in the car on Sat in between texting him. Is it possible that she could have a moment of what the heck am i doing to my family and start to be remorseful and seek help? Or is this all a smokescreen to indulge her selfishness?