Definitely pad the truth. I don't talk about W negatively with him around. In my sitch, there's not just one OM. It's multiple OM and OW that kind of just come and go, because W isn't looking for a relationship, she's only worried about having her fun.

I suppose that does make it a little bit easier in one aspect...I don't have to have talks with S about anyone trying to replace me...lol.

I wonder though if S is going to ask W or her friends why they think I'm a bad guy...lol. That's gonna be an awkward conversation for them. laugh Not that I hope he does, but I mean, they kind of created this mess.

Dunno what the future is going to be like. I'm just trying to do the best I can for S.