Originally Posted By: blakmac


I really wish that he could be here every night like he was when W and I were together. I miss having them both here.

I had to change the subject. I may have told him too much, but I also don't want to lie to him about why I can't go there anymore. That's a tricky conversation to have with an almost 4 year old.

I need to research things like how to have hard conversations with a child. I tried to keep it simple, and I tried to not have to go into any details with him.


Miss it too. S3 mentions it a lot, missing living with us all. He mentioned missing living at the apartment we shared.
When he asks why we dont live there anymore i just say "Mommy wanted to move back home with Grandma"

Having to her S3 talk about OM never gets any easier either. smirk
its hard to not lie, but also pad the truth.

M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds