Ciluzen: amazing amount of insight and knowledge, hard earned I am sure. Thank you for sharing, and I suggest everyone read and re-read.
FaceMan: you are doing great for how early this is. Keep doing your thing. And DO NOT be discouraged when waves of doubt, sorrow and disbelief hit. They will, and for a long while. They just keep getting less and less powerful. Your job is to take care of yourself and your kids, and show the path to your wife by example in your life.
