Going the Distance (Saying ILY Pt. 6)

[mtb1981]

Your wife is trying to get your attention and hurt you by liking an old picture. She wanted you to see her with OM. So don't let it get to you.

Focus on your little girl and helping her out.

Has your W filed for divorce? I'd screenshot that stuff so the kids can see and understand one day.

I'm aware she was doing this on purpose to try to get my attention. Highly unlikely it was a coincidence that she did this on our 10 year anniversary using a social media platform (the only one I hadn't blocked her from) that she hasn't used for close to a year...

W did not file, but I did about a month ago. I felt I had to for the protection of myself. Her big thing was always coming over with the police and trying to take things from the house and just vausing a scene in general. Legally, I could not prevent her from coming over to the marital home. The only way to keep her away was to file and get an injunction for temporary posession of the house. Now she has no legal right to be here. Before that, she had broken in and was stealing things from the house. My hands were tied and there was nothing I could do. One time when she brought the police over, the dumb cop announced that she could bust out a window, get in, and take everything and there would be nothing I could do about it. I was like, "Thanks a lot, buddy! Way to give her ideas!". You should have seen her eyes light up when she heard him say that. Several times after that, she had threatened to break a window to get in. Now if she doe, she gets charged with B&E. Also, needed to protect myself financially. She has horrible spending habits and is extremely hard up for money. I've had a few letters show up at the house that I could tell were from requests for credit cards. I don't want to be on the hook for a bunch of debt she incurs during this whole ordeal....