IH, I fully endorse pushing things ahead. No more standing scratching your head. Find out one way or the other. Don't settle for the FZ. Either you will be unfriended when she meets someone, or else someone you meet won't understand how you are so close to your XW.
No good can come from the FZ. Push it. Get an answer. Then you will know.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018