I have to admit before I came to this forum I thought only men did these bad things. I had no idea women were capable of doing them as well. What your wife has done is beyond inexcusable. She shouldn't be rewarded with any of those things. I'm truly sorry for what you're going through.
Nicole, i will probably get stepped on as being some sort of misogyinst by saying this but... From reading these forums, not only are women just as capable of being unfaithful and wayward and all that goes with it, but i would venture to say that, at least based on the sample size here, that the majority of broken marriages seem to involve this "wayward wife" pattern that Sandi2 has identified. Not that women have a corner on that market, certainly, but... it sure seems like the majority of cases on this board follow that pattern. Not sure if it is something cultural/societal (prevalence of social media, ease of cheating, decay of social mores) or something else, but it definitely turned my head as it seems to have turned yours. I always though that men were the bigger "dogs" in terms of cheating.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
