Thanks Arsh I'll check that site and will read more in MLC section of this forum. My husband's psychologist did say he's having a mid-life crisis. It's been nearly three years since it started and even five years since my husband made the first reference to missing out on his youth. When I've read about MLC's there's usually an affair involved. The hard part is that it doesn't appear MLC husbands always come back to their wives at the end. It looks like sometimes they morph into a whole different person and stay that way forever. So there's not much reassurance although the knowledge of what's happening can be helpful and perhaps some do wake up and return. I'll read more to find out more.